You and your friend can jointly contact an adoption agency or adoption attorney and indicate that you both want this placement (known as an “identified” or “designated” adoption).
You will still need to have a homestudy and you and your friend will need to meet all other requirements for counseling, pre-adoption education, and any others required by the adoption professional and state law.

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